Murray "Butch" Dene Washam

Murray Dene "Butch" Washam, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend, passed away peacefully on January 13, 2026, at the VA Hospital in Salisbury. Born  August 25, 1946, in Mooresville, Butch lived a life characterized by dedication, love, and a strong sense of community. He was 79 years old at the time of his passing.

Butch was the son of the late Murray and Martha Bumgardner Washam. He was a proud graduate of North Mecklenburg High School and went on to serve his country in the United States Army, a commitment that he held dear throughout his life. After his military service, Butch dedicated 40 years to the McGuire Nuclear Plant for Duke Power, where he was known for his strong work ethic and unwavering loyalty.

In 1976, Butch married the love of his life, Roxanne Washam, with whom he shared a beautiful journey for 49 years. Butch had 2 sons, Travis Washam and wife Amy of Rock Hill, SC, and Ricky Washam of Wilmington. Butch's pride and joy were his two granddaughters, Kailey Washam and Megan Donnelly, who brought immense happiness to his life.

Butch's heart was as big as his passions. He loved to go bass fishing and competed in numerous tournaments, always relishing the thrill of the catch. In addition to fishing, he had a zest for life that included riding motorcycles and enjoying the open road. Butch was deeply connected to his faith and was a dedicated member and Deacon of Castanea Community Church. He served on many committees, contributing his time and talents to the church community that he cherished.

An active member of his community, Butch was a Past Master of Stanley Masonic Lodge #713, where he exemplified the values of brotherhood and charity. He had a unique characteristic that was endearing to those who knew him; he always carried a buckeye in his pocket, a symbol of good luck and a reminder of his love for family and friends.

A celebration of Butch's life will be held on January 16, 2025, at 1:00 PM at Castanea Community Church. Interment with Military and Masonic Rites will follow the service in the church cemetery.  The family will receive friends from 12:00-1:00pm prior to the service at the church.

Memorials may be made to Castanea Community Church  

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